Perfectionism doesn’t help us progress; mistakes do.
With the right mindset, they push us forward. We need to know that succeeding isn’t neat and tidy; it’s sloppy and messy. It’s mistake-ridden.
When you make a mistake, it lays the groundwork for improvement. Every failure is an attempt to do something. And in those attempts, you experience this and that. You test a hypothesis; you discover. You see what works and what doesn’t work, and you can understand something new about yourself.
Sure, making a mistake is painful, and it’s tempting to want to ignore the failure, avoid it. But that would be a waste. That would be a bigger mistake than the mistake you’re trying to forget.
Mistakes are a goldmine for growth and learning. But you can’t learn and grow from them if you ignore them.
If Steve Jobs didn’t get fired from Apple, he wouldn’t have learned what he needed to learn to come back and become its successful CEO. Jeff Bezos, Amazon’s founder, said that he’s made billions of dollars of failures. And without those costly mistakes, his company wouldn’t have grown, making him the wealthiest person in the world.
One of my biggest mistakes was taking on some wrong business partners. I was the one who pushed for partnering and got it. In the end, it got me. And it almost broke me.
But as I healed and recovered, I changed. I got stronger, smarter. And I am much more careful when it comes to partnerships. I learned.
And this blog post is a product of my mistake. If I would have never failed at those partnerships, I don’t think I would have ever tried blogging. I grew.
You see, we are mistaken about mistakes.
They hurt like hell at the moment, but they are blessings. If you understand them aright and try to learn from them, things won’t just get back to normal; they often get better.
So make more mistakes. Take risks. Try new things. Put yourself out there. Learn.
And you will find that a mistake can become a marvel.
Nice post, John. This reminds me of the Japanese art of Kintsugi, the beauty of flaws. Humans are all flawed and that is what makes us beautiful. Have a nice evening.
Thank you for reading it, Linda. That’s very insightful regarding Kintsugi. Hope you have a great evening, too.