Thriving is great, but sometimes surviving is the best you can do.
Because, you know, life gets crazy.
Jobs get lost, companies go out of business, relationships break, people leave us, we get sick—pandemics happen: crazy: Those are the moments that aren’t controllable and cause us great pain.
Right now, the world can feel like it’s ending and you’re sitting at home worrying. But that only makes things worse.
Worrying makes you despair. But do not do that. Resist. Move forward.
Moment by moment, walk if you can. Crawl if you must.
Start doing what it takes to stay alive. Survive.
Sell that car, extra house, go to a food pantry, self-quarantine, wear a face mask. Do what it takes to live another day.
Who cares if people think you’re doing badly. Who cares if they point and laugh? This isn’t about them. It’s about you.
It’s about you making it to tomorrow, living day by day, getting a fighting chance. That’s it. So appearances be damned.
Make it through today.
These are terrible times. Don’t let your pride or the opinions of others or even your own opinion of yourself stop you from getting through this season.
Take that handout, ask for help, make that request.
Find a way through the crazy.
Books to help you survive:
The Outsiders (affiliate): This classic young adult novel will help you get your mind right in this difficult times; it has helped me. And, to be honest, it distracts me from my own struggles so I don’t dwell on them. It’s a great story and wonderfully written and is about the survival of rich and poor kids, who battle each other, but are finding that they both have their own struggles. I hope it serves you well and that you enjoy it as much as I am.
Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance (affiliate): The author, Angela Duckworth, puts forth the idea that talent or genius isn’t what fundamentally drives success. It’s grit. Now, I haven’t broken into this book yet, but it is on my to-read list and comes highly recommended by the people I follow. I mean, grit sounds like something we all need a little bit more of these days.
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