One of the hardest things about writing is saying something worth sitting down to write.
I know. I’m feeling it right now, as I’m trying to write this.
And that’s the thing about writing; it’s often based on our feelings. When we write, we can feel not only that our work isn’t worthy enough, but that, somehow, we are unworthy. That’s what makes writing so hard.
In writing, it’s less about what is being written than it is about the writer. You. Me. Us.
But, if you remember anything from this post, remember this. You are good enough to write.
Sure, you’re going to write crap. A lot of what you create will be garbage. Yes, most of it won’t get read, or it will get ignored. And all of that will feel horrible.
I know. I’ve been there. I still get there. I was there today.
But that doesn’t mean all of your writings are bad. You’re just in process. You’re growing. And that is painful.
I find that I must repeatedly give myself the permission to write, even if it’s poor, unread, ignored material (especially in those times). We as writers so easily stop ourselves because we have this imaginary person inside of us, criticizing us, telling us that we have no business sitting here writing.
But they are wrong. You do belong here. You do have something to say. You must write.
You must because you feel it in your heart. You have a desire within you. And, if you do, you must keep at it. Don’t stop. Keep writing.
You see, writing isn’t about whether your writing is worthy or not. Every writer, even Stephen King to Shakespeare, wrote words that flopped. So, no, it’s not about how worthy your writing is. It’s about what you do.
And if you write, you, my dear reader, are a writer.
And, over time, you will improve. You will find readers. You will write words that will resonate with the world, people, whom you never thought you would reach, will begin reading your words and find them worthy of reading.
I don’t know if it will get any easier to write as you proceed, but I do know this.
You’ll be a writer no matter how you feel.
Lovely. Thank you John!